Notice or no notice at all?
What would be better? Knowing your going to die in a short period of time, or haveing no notice at all?
If you don't know, then you don't have to go through the agony of waiting for death to come. You don't have to deal with anything. You get to just keep on living untill, suddenly it is over and it was painless for you.
Only, I think it leaves a huge gaping wound for everyone else. They don't get to say Goodbye and say their peace. Then, neither do you. You have no time to say all the things you should have said and to live they way you would have wanted to live. But, really, there is never enough TIME.
The best option is to live like everyday is your last. Use every moment and make it precious and warm, so that if you suddenly go.. there are no regrets for anyone.
My worst fear is I will have a fight with my kids or my husband and then suddenly someone is dead and that is the LAST interaction you had with them. How awful.
That is why, I think I would want notice. So, I can make sure that I said what I needed to say and do, before the good Lord took me away.
If you don't know, then you don't have to go through the agony of waiting for death to come. You don't have to deal with anything. You get to just keep on living untill, suddenly it is over and it was painless for you.
Only, I think it leaves a huge gaping wound for everyone else. They don't get to say Goodbye and say their peace. Then, neither do you. You have no time to say all the things you should have said and to live they way you would have wanted to live. But, really, there is never enough TIME.
The best option is to live like everyday is your last. Use every moment and make it precious and warm, so that if you suddenly go.. there are no regrets for anyone.
My worst fear is I will have a fight with my kids or my husband and then suddenly someone is dead and that is the LAST interaction you had with them. How awful.
That is why, I think I would want notice. So, I can make sure that I said what I needed to say and do, before the good Lord took me away.
posted by Magpie at 6:59 PM
1 Comments:
Having being given a possible notice, I have to say.....not so much. It dampens the spirit of living. I would rather not know and just do as you say, live each moment to the fullest. God has a plan for us all, the problem with us humans we are always trying to figure out what it is. The true meaning to our exsistance is never actually known until we die and meet God. Think of the time we waste by wondering what, why, where and how. I hate to sound like a Nike commerical, but just do it. Live with no regrets. :)
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